In the past year and a half of dancing I have been struck by the lack of sensuality among most of the performers.Looking sexy is more than simply showing as much of your beautiful body as possible. In fact, knowing just what to show and what to cover is vastly more important. As a performer, one should consider a stage set or a lap dance a strip tease. Make it fun to do and to watch! Here are a couple of tips-
1. Take it off slowly. One of my pet peeves is watching a dancer walk off to the side of the stage and peel her clothes off as though no one is watching and just drop them or toss them to the side. Burlesque dancers are a great resource for taking off clothing in a fun way.
2. Wear layers.
No, not like you would for a snowstorm, but more than just lingerie. Perhaps a cute bra under a little top, and some cheekie undies over your thong, all under a little skirt. That way you have more to take off periodically, and !surprise! I’m more naked than before! (This works especially well for the end of a lap dance, and as a secret layer that only those who purchase dances get to see.)
3. Be confident and make eye contact!
These two don’t necessarily go together, but are equally important and confidence will help with the eye contact. When you make eye contact, with a flirty little smile, and walk confidently, then every little sway and shake is perceived as intended specifically for the one you are looking at. You will give the impression that person is the only one you want, and you want badly.
You’re welcome for the extra money and passionate encounters. 🙂